Yes, smacky is correct. This young man has every right to be upset with his Father. And for people to have that “well, he wasn’t married to Mia and he didn’t adopt this Soon Ye, and we should all get over it” is simply wrong. To Ronan, Soon Ye was his older sister for many years and for his father to waltz in and decide that he wanted this girl for himself without any regard as to what this would do to the rest of the family was selfish.